Love Is A Verb

"Human nature often compels us to look at others in our lives and cry " But you don't care! I can only love you if you love me!"

Our human nature tends to withhold and wait to give until we've reaped the benefits of our emotional time and trouble.

But how contrary human nature is to true love! When we long for someone to change, sometimes the best step to take is the first step-acting not on the way things are but on the way we wish a relationship to be.
Choosing to have faith in a relationship is always a risk. But more often than not, when we're willing to take the first step, changes happen- in us and in those we long to be close to"

-Adapted from "Love is a Verb" by Dr. Gary Chapman

Come With Me My Friends

Lately, I've been immersing myself in the realm of self-improvement in a whole lot of areas such as relationships, body language, dating, people-relations, psychology... just to name a few. Everyone close to me knows that I love books and initially I was into fiction but then i realized that i felt very unfulfilled as I desperately yearned to come across a book which could actually leave a delible impact on my life and I did not attain that with fiction. It was only till I started reading self-improvement books did i stumble upon what I so desperately craved.

After reading various books on different aspects of self-improvement, I managed to obtain a great deal of vital knowledge which transformed my way of thinking and mannerisms. It revolutionized my way of life as well in more ways than one. This got me thinking. If I could benefit such a great deal from this wealth of knowledge, so could hordes of people if they had the opportunity to obtain it, learn it and integrate it into their way of life. With the aid of my cousin, Saiful Rizal, who is a success coach, I made a decision to share these various troves of knowledge through my own website, which will be set up later in the year. In the meantime, i'll be posting info-bites on my blog in upcoming posts.

Be prepared to go on an amazing journey of self-metamorphosis my friends. I assure you that these valuable knowledge will help revolutionize your relationships and ultimately lead you to be the person you've always envisioned yourself to be.

Till next time my friends...

Revelations

Watched District 9 today with my cuz. Movie was alrite i guess if you keep an open mind. Seemed pretty crappy at the start but it got better towards the end. haha.

Today was life-changing. I realised that i had no purpose in life at the moment. I'm like a ghost, wandering aimlessly down the streets. I told all of this to my cousin just now, about how i want to have a purpose in my life right now but i don't know what it is and how to work towards it. He sat me down and asked me a series of questions and gathered valuable information from me. Through the info that he got from me, he helped me draw up a plan for my life at the moment. A plan which could potentially change my life. I feel amazing. I feel thankful. Most of all, I feel empowered.

There are few moments where people can point to and say, " That's when it happened. That's when my life changed". This is that moment.

-Nil-

Hope is the one thing a man in my position should not have. Why did you give it to me?

Comedies are remedies to life's tragedies

OMFG! This is one of the funniest shows i've seen in a long time. hahaha. Practically laughed throughout the entire movie. Definitely worth a second watch. haha. Recommend all you peeps to catch it. Guaranteed to send you into peals of uncontrollable laughter. Oh yea, it's M18 i think. Nudity and language i think. haha. Pure unadulterated awesomeness.

Met up with hirman and zul just now for dinner. Was really good to catch up with those guys. My oldest friends. Charles joined us for dinner too coz i invited him. haha. He just sat there and laughed at our jokes. Haha. These are the people which make my life so much more bearable. My friends are really the most important people in my life. It gives me comfort to know that there are still people who i can depend on in times of need. Thanks so much guys.

People always leave...

Move Along

Hello again. Nth much to blog about coz most of my time is spent working. The whole two days work-two days off deal is really great...if you have people to spend the off days with. It sucks to have off days during the weekdays coz most of my friends are in camp.

Life in station so far has been pretty awesome. The experience of saving lives is unrivaled by any other vocations. haha. Handled my first Road Traffic accident the other day. Female pillion rider was flung off onto the sidewalk after a collision with a taxi. Managed to convey her to the hospital swiftly and she should be alrite. Another life saved thanks to Civil Defence. hahaha.

As i have mentioned in one of my earlier posts, "Attraction is not a choice". It's that sense of gravitiation towards a person. Though orbiting around that person can leave one bruised and battered at times, one cannot fight it. However, right now, I am desperately fighting free myself from this turbulent ride but the escape hatch simply won't budge. There's only so much bruising a person can handle.

It's over. Move Along

Chris Daughtry's cover of Poker Face

Keep you much longer...

Tried my hardest
Sorry if i hurt you in any way...

Akon-Keep you much longer



Lyrics | Akon lyrics - Keep You Much Longer lyrics

As long as i've got eyes, i'll have the sight for you
As long as i'm alive, baby i'd die for you